People and Their Decisions
Today people have the rights and freedom to do as they please. Unfortunately, we have rights that seem to affect other people and their beliefs. People judge people for no specific reason and I believe it’s not our right to judge, and at the end of time it isn’t really up to us. Women who become pregnant and don’t want to keep the fetus isn’t really up to us we aren’t the ones having to raise it. Also, women who have a problem getting pregnant the normal way are getting eggs planted by doctors and are able to get pregnant. Technology has come a long ways. The views and opinions of everyone else have made it a hot topic. My opinion is not to judge the situation unless you have been in their shoes and then decide, but not judge it’s not out place! My questions are would you want somebody raising you that didn’t want you to begin with? Or would you like to be with somebody who loves and adore children and can provide for you? I honestly think that neither the government nor anyone should tell you what you can or cannot do on such a life changing decision.
Everyone has their views on people getting abortions. Is it really their choice to make? I think it’s a life decision to raise a child that was not planned or won’t get treated with the love a child needs. I feel like the kids that cause lots of problems feel like they were neglected and abused. Could this be why crime rates are up? Could this by why there seems to be so much hatred in the world today? Because a person decided to have a child because of the guilt of getting an abortion and what people would think of her. With technology today women can have kids that have issues with getting pregnant through natural ways. They have the knowledge to inject the sperm in the egg and implant it in the woman’s uterus to grow an embryo. They also have adoption and foster parents for people to have children to. I think all of these ways for people to have children but it makes you think why get an abortion? What kind of legal rights do you have if you choose abortion? Does the father have rights to choose against it? Can kids under 18 years of age have an abortion without parents’ consent? What does the government say about it in debate?
Abortion to me unlike some people is a big decision that changes a life. The woman who generally get abortions have part time jobs, no health insurance, already parents that only have $30 left from their paycheck and spend it on food for the family or birth control pills. Some also get abortions from domestic poverty, domestic violence rape, inset, AIDS, homelessness or hopelessness. These are all from WRRAP foundation that helps women during this rough time. WRRAP stands for Women’s Reproductive Rights Assistance Project, this is a foundation that is ran by volunteers and the money that is raised is spent on helping women with nowhere else to turn to.
By the statistics from WRRAP only 17 states provide financial aid; 14 of them do so under court order. With these crazy statistics 50% of chief-residents have no clinical experience in doing this procedure or training for a life-saving abortion. Over 54% of unwanted pregnancies are the result of failed birth control. Between the years of 1994 and 2000 the overall abortion rate dropped 11%, but the rate for poor women increased 7%. The United States abortion providers decrease 2% between the years of 2000 and 2005. There are fewer doctors each year who know how to help, and doctors that are even willing. With WRRAP help 1000 women who could not afford the abortions. In order to get help from WRRAP you have to be at least 10 weeks pregnant to even get help.
Children are able to get an abortion under the age of 18 in some states. Few states allow this. There are different laws into the abortion rights, but that allows it where the parental consent is not allowed. This makes it very scary in my eyes! The states that go through the judicial system a judge consent the minor has to give the following information in order to get an abortion, is the minor mature, is the minor emancipated and is the abortion in the best interest of the minor. The court must hear the case then in a short time usually 3 to 4 days. If the court has problems or any other questions they are going to have to appeal it and then try again. Majority of the time these cases don’t take months like a criminal case, because with this you only have so long before you can get an abortion before it’s too late. Parents of a pregnant teenager cannot force them into having an abortion or placing the fetus up for adoption. The only exception to this is if the pregnant teen’s life is in danger due to a medical emergency. The teen’s parents then have the right to permit an abortion against the teenager’s wishes. In these cases having a lawyer/attorney is not mandatory, but having one will make the communications and process a lot easier.
Fathers of these unborn children do NOT have any rights or say so in the abortion topic. This is all on the woman who is pregnant. The father has no legal rights. The Supreme Court has made it easier for the women to go through this process without making it any harder than it already is. My luck would be if there were any rights towards the father of course they would want the baby at first and then what if he changes his mind. It’s not cool anymore or having second thoughts about raising this child. The father can up and leave or wait 9 months to make a commitment. The woman is the one who sacrifices more time and the body in order to raise this child. It just doesn’t seem fair to me to give someone more rights when it’s not their body that will be the one suffering. I know this is their child to, but you have to be smart and think of the future to. Some people would call this selfish I would call it being smart. With every decision we make through our whole lives will always have somewhat of a sacrifice later on or at the present time. We live and learn from them. Today there are so many young kids getting pregnant at such an early age, and it just seems so natural and ok. My sister was pregnant at the age of 15 and had a baby we considered the abortion but it was too late. The baby was already six months no one would even try to do it at that stage. The father was a low life bum and still doesn’t have a job or support any of his children that he was with several other girls! Is there any way the government can get people like that fixed?
Between the years of 1969 and 1973, tens of thousands of women and men held hundreds of protests across the United States, making women’s rights to choose a central demand for the women’s liberation movement. We need activism to build that kind of movement and link it to the right to choose with full reproductive rights for all women. People live lives that are completely out of sync with the so-called family values of the Christian Right. Making one out of every three women today has an abortion and means that most people know someone who has needed one. The pro-choice movement should be fighting everything the Christian Right stands for. A movement that defends the right to abortion without apology will find millions of people on its side.
Today’s life in the real world with politics Republicans are normally against abortions and Democrats aren’t technically for it but don’t pass that much judgment towards it. In the political debates democrats are pushing Mitt Romney to the discussing of reproductive rights in a bid to raise doubts among women. Romney says that “life begins at conception.” In 2005 Romney changed his view on abortion rights. Representative Michele Bachmam of Minnesota also says “life begins at conception.” In October they introduced a bill in congress to require women considering an abortion to have an ultrasound and listen to the fetal heartbeat. Declining to comment on what Bachmam spokeswoman called “state-issues.” Governor Rick Perry of Texas also declined to comment. In my opinion to decline any comments would be the best part because to me that can make or break you. Especially with the way votes go in today’s world. Today’s political views are different then what they used to be.
Women’s reproductive rights are legal rights and freedoms relating to reproduction and reproductive health. Being a woman is tough! I personally think that all women deserve the right to decide what they want to do with their body. It’s theirs they are sacrificing not anyone else. So there should be no reason why anyone else should be involved. I also believe that today there are too many people trying to nosey their way into other people’s problems and issues. They should just worry about what they need and nobody else and I think the things with the reproductive rights would be a lot easier.
In my conclusion don’t judge anyone until you’ve walked a mile or so in their shoes. A lifelong lesson I’ve learned growing up. Not everything in life is going to be easy if so there wouldn’t be a single person who would have to work for what they have or had. One thing I do say about abortions they can make life easier and tough at the same time. Unfortunately, life doesn’t have a rewind button, pause or fast-forward so we just have to make life the best we can. Abortion does have supporters and protestors just like everything else. It is a life decision that you have to make and do what’s best for you and your lifestyle. People don’t think of it that way! They just call people baby killers and what not. That is very much the truth but it is a responsibility you have to make. I know a girl that had an abortion and she’s perfectly fine with it and now has a little girl and another one on the way. Just at the time it was too much for her to handle with school, work and just life in general. I don’t think it’s a selfish thing to do. I think it’s a very hard decision! I think it’s protecting someone from being at a place where they are not loved or wanted. Because really who wants to be that out of place person? Not me.
Works Cited
Abortion is every woman’s right. SocialistWorker.org. 23 April 2004. http://socialistworker.org/2004-1/496/496_06_Abortion.shtml.
Abortion Rights of Minors. LegalMatch. 1999-2011. http://www.legalmatch.com/law-library/article/abortion-rights-of-minors.html.
Parker, Ashely. Democrats Target Romney on Reproductive Rights. The Caucus. November 3, 2011. http://thecaucus.blogs.nytimes.com/2011/11/03/democrats-target-romneu-on-reproductive-rights/.
Supreme Court Says: Father’s Have No Rights Over Child in Womb!.www.jesus-is-savior.com/Evils%20in%America/Abortion%20is%20Murder/fathers_rights.htm
Women’s Reproductive Rights Assistance Project (WRRAP). Foundation. http://www.fundabortionnow.org/funds/wrrap.